Intro

It's time for a reality check ...

Maybe we’ve reached the point of diminishing astonishment.

But I suspect that much of what we’re hammered with every day really doesn’t make much of an impact on most of us anymore. We’ve heard the same stories too often. We’ve been exposed to the same issues for so long without any meaningful resolution. We recognize that reality is rapidly becoming malleable, primarily in the hands of whoever has the biggest microphone. How else can we explain a society where myth asserts itself as reality, based entirely how many hits it gets online?

We know that many of the “issues” as defined are pure crapola, hyped by politicians on both sides pandering to “the will of the people,” which is still more crapola. Inevitably, it’s not the will of all the people they reflect, but the will of relatively small groups of people with disproportionate political influence.

Nobody wants to face up to the realities of the issues. Nobody wants to say what’s right or wrong – even when it’s obvious and there are numbers to back it up. Most of us are afraid to bring up the realities for fear of being accused of being insensitive or downright mean.

So we say nothing. Until now.

It’s time for a reality check on the fundamentals – much of which is common knowledge to many of us, already. But it might be comforting to know you are not alone …

Thursday, December 20, 2018

Now, that's funny ...


Don’t hear that much anymore, do you? 

You can thank the political correctness movement.  The PC police – you know, the killjoys who want to ensure that no one, nowhere is offended by anything. Especially a joke.   

Because jokes can hurt. It’s not right to repeat, much less laugh at, jokes that might hurt. You never know when you risk offending someone. So, no jokes allowed.

Unless, of course, you’re mocking Trump, Melania, Christians, Pence, Republicans, white people, conservatives, or anyone with a religious belief. Then anything goes; it’s fine – and funny. 

There are other rules, however. They also depend on who you are.  

Today if you’re black you can make fun of anyone, even other blacks, except gay blacks – that’s not allowed. Gay people can mock any straight people, but straight people of any race can’t make jokes about anybody who might be LGBTQIAPK (that covers a lot of ground, look it up). 

Gay conservatives – and there are some – are stuck in the same rut as white conservatives and can’t make fun of anybody. That would be offensive.   

Just thought I’d lay out the new rules as I see them.  But you already knew them, right?  We’re all tiptoeing around subjects to stay politically correct. We live in fear of telling a joke in a crowd that goes over like a fart at a funeral. 

That’s too bad.  I’ve always loved a good joke.  Most of us still do. Yet everyone’s too afraid these days to tell a great joke, or even laugh at something that’s clearly funny. 

Humor is about incongruity, the things in life that make no sense, and also about making fun of stereotypical situations – in short, about the things that make us all fallible humans. Especially when it’s about ourselves and our everyday lives; self-deprecating humor is often the funniest. 

Humor is also about stripping away pretensions.  Humbling the haughty.  Poking fun at the powerful. But most of all, knocking the arrogant and self-righteous off their high horse.  

Ridicule, sarcasm, and the well-timed joke are valuable weapons in bringing the mighty down to earth and leveling the playing field.  Humor has always been an equal opportunity offender and a healthier way to vent frustration than physical violence.   

It’s been that way since the dawn of time in every culture, every society, and every nation. Archeologists constantly find written or visual jokes dating back thousands of years. Some are quite crude bathroom humor, and quite graphic.  Others deal with sexual preferences or performance. Some impugn the character of politicians, other ethnic groups, and other religions. Some even make fun of particular gods and myths.   

And I’ll bet in their day these were all considered hilarious.  In bad taste at times, I’m sure, but probably had their audiences laughing their ancient asses off. 

There’s nothing wrong with humor.  Even when it’s at someone else’s expense.  And it’s perfectly okay to laugh at whatever you find funny.  Doubt that? 

Tell me honestly that seeing some arrogant jerk take a pratfall isn’t funny.  Or that the famous pix of Chris Christie in the beach chair isn’t hilarious.  Or Clint Eastwood’s joke in the movie Gran Torino about “a Mexican, a Jew and a colored guy walk into a bar …” wasn’t, either. Tell me you’ve never laughed at Robin Williams doing standup. Or Chris Rock doing standup, or in his video “How to avoid getting your ass kicked by the police.”  Or Mel Brook’s Blazing Saddles.  Or a website I really miss called Regretsy ("Where DIY meets WTF") that mocked silly "handmade" items people were trying to sell on Etsy.  

Or whatever is often obviously in bad taste but still obviously funny to you. 

You’re forgiven for being human and having a sense of humor.  It’s okay. 

It’s the people who have no sense of humor that should worry us. 

They need to get a life instead of trying to ruin ours. 

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