Intro

It's time for a reality check ...

Maybe we’ve reached the point of diminishing astonishment.

But I suspect that much of what we’re hammered with every day really doesn’t make much of an impact on most of us anymore. We’ve heard the same stories too often. We’ve been exposed to the same issues for so long without any meaningful resolution. We recognize that reality is rapidly becoming malleable, primarily in the hands of whoever has the biggest microphone. How else can we explain a society where myth asserts itself as reality, based entirely how many hits it gets online?

We know that many of the “issues” as defined are pure crapola, hyped by politicians on both sides pandering to “the will of the people,” which is still more crapola. Inevitably, it’s not the will of all the people they reflect, but the will of relatively small groups of people with disproportionate political influence.

Nobody wants to face up to the realities of the issues. Nobody wants to say what’s right or wrong – even when it’s obvious and there are numbers to back it up. Most of us are afraid to bring up the realities for fear of being accused of being insensitive or downright mean.

So we say nothing. Until now.

It’s time for a reality check on the fundamentals – much of which is common knowledge to many of us, already. But it might be comforting to know you are not alone …

Tuesday, August 1, 2017

The river cruise …

Taking a river cruise in Europe has always been on my wife’s bucket list.

We planned one two years ago but had to cancel at the last minute because we sold our house and the buyer wanted to close at about the same time.

So we rebooked and finally made it this year.  We did the Rhine on Viking.

Our original itinerary had us flying on United from Orlando to Dulles, followed by a direct flight to Brussels that evening arriving at 7:15 AM the next day. We would be picked up in Brussels and whisked away to our hotel in Bruges. A couple of days in Bruges, then to Amsterdam for a couple more days, and then on to the Viking ship. Then on the Rhine to Basel and fly back home.    

That was the plan.  Here’s what happened instead. 

Our flight from Orlando was delayed by thunderstorms. We sat on the tarmac for five hours.  At one point, the pilot came on to say our plane had mysteriously been dropped from the queue by air traffic control – the first time ever in his entire career – and that United and the controllers were trying to sort things out.  Not a good start. 

We missed our connecting flight to Brussels, but United courteously texted us while we were still on the tarmac in Orlando that our connecting flight had already departed.  Thanks, United.    

While we waited to take off, we called Viking and they rebooked us on a British Airways flight that night from Dulles, but to Heathrow, and then from Heathrow to Brussels the next day.

PITA but hey, we were on our way!

United said they would try to get our bags, checked in Orlando, over to the BA flight.  But they didn’t.  However, at least we had a flight and would eventually get to Brussels, even if our bags would take a bit longer to catch up.

Okay, so maybe we got the last and worst possible seats on the BA flight, against the bulkhead against the bathroom, no room to recline, but we were on a plane going the right direction. 

On the BA flight that night – which didn’t leave until around midnight – they had a dinner service with wine. Nice. Except my wife knocked over her white wine into her lap and partly into mine. It wasn’t a total catastrophe; we had worn jeans to travel and always packed a couple of days’ extra clothes in our carry-on bags. If need be, I could change.   

Her jeans were soaked; mine were only partially wet, so I figured mine would dry overnight. And, to be candid, it’s not like it was the first time someone, or me, had spilled a drink on me.

Although I was usually having much more fun when it happened. 

She got it much worse than me. She was drenched.  They brought her a sleeper set from first class to wear while her jeans dried.  She changed into the sleeper pants, I stayed in my jeans. 

The next morning, my jeans were completely dry. Until the breakfast service on board.

That’s when the flight attendant dropped a full glass of orange juice into my lap. Directly into my lap. Dead center. Which, at my age you can’t ignore – it looks like an inside job. 

So now I have dried wine on one leg and fresh orange juice and pulp in the middle.    

I had no choice but to change into a spare pair of pants from my carry on, which is a nifty trick in an airplane bathroom. (This proved to me once again that anyone claiming to be a member of the “mile-high club” is either lying or both parties were world-class contortionists.)  

The attendants were so sorry they brought my wife a really nice goody bag from first class.  I got soaked and she got a great gift.  Go figure.  

That morning we landed safely, but late, into Heathrow. I don’t know if anyone else has had this experience, but Heathrow is the only airport I know where they don’t announce your next flight’s gate until 15 minutes before boarding. 

Plus, you have to go through security screening all over again.  Which, by itself, is no big deal. Except that they select every 4th or 5th passenger’s carry-on bags for detailed inspection by pulling everything out on a table, running an explosives scan, and examining everything. 

Guess who was 4th or 5th? That’s right, me.  And we’re running tight on making our next flight.

So while I’m frantically looking over my shoulder to see which gate we should be running toward, and trying not to look nervous like a potential terrorist, the security woman is calmly poring over my stuff and assuring me my next flight’s probably delayed anyway. 

Which it was, continuing our streak. 

We do arrive in Brussels in the late afternoon, instead of early that morning. Of course our checked bags aren’t there; we have to file a claim for those.  The claim agent tells us our bags are still at Dulles, but should be on the next United flight arriving at 7:15 AM the next day, at which time they will be brought to our hotel in Bruges. 

We can deal with that. Just one day, right?  Then we’re back on track. Still, because we got in so late, timed perfectly to hit rush hour in Brussels, it takes our driver a couple of hours to get to Bruges; we get there and checked into our hotel about 6 PM.  

The next day, when our bags haven’t arrived, big surprise, the Viking rep calls on our behalf and learns that our bags are probably now headed toward London Heathrow and there’s a possibility that one bag will be coming on one flight and the other on another. He advises the airline that if our bags aren’t delivered that evening, they will have to go to our hotel in Amsterdam, because that’s where we’ll be the next day.

We have started to exhaust our emergency clothes in our carry-ons.  We had our jeans cleaned at the hotel in Bruges – only about 30 Euros for laundering two pairs of jeans – but underwear has started to become an issue for me.  I had tossed my wine and orange-juice pair – imagine housekeeping’s surprise find – and I wasn’t ready to go commando, clean jeans or not.  In Europe or not.  I was down to my last clean pair. 

Fortunately, because our bags had been lost for more than 24 hours, we were allowed to buy some more stuff and be reimbursed by the airlines. My wife bought some things.  And the supermarket down the street from our hotel sold men’s underwear.      

When we leave for Amsterdam our bags remain in transit. 

We tour Amsterdam that day. It’s gray and rainy. Still, I have a pack of overpriced spare underwear so I’m calm. When we get back from dinner that night the concierge has great news – our bags are in Amsterdam!

But there’s a problem. They can’t release the bags without a customs form. 

The airline agent suggests we come to the Amsterdam airport to sign the forms and retrieve our bags. My wife convinces them to e-mail the form to the concierge, we will complete it and fax it back. They give us 15 minutes to do this. They do it, she completes it, the hotel faxes it back.

At 11:05 PM that night our bags finally arrive at our room.  We wept in joy.

Not really, but we were truly relieved to see our luggage at last.  That’s a really good thing because I’ve just discovered that men’s underwear marked “medium” must mean something entirely different in Europe than the States. European men must have hips like little girls. I don’t. 

The rest of the trip was relatively uneventful by comparison. 

How could that be? It was Europe!  It was a river cruise on the Rhine – castles, touring historic cities, experiencing European culture!

Yes, it was all that. And in fairness to Viking, the river boat was modern and beautiful, the staff exceptionally friendly and helpful, and the food was terrific. Since we had a beverage package, drinks were awesome and generous and the bartenders amazing. 

Would I do it again?  I don’t think so.  Not my kind of vacation.  Not Viking’s fault.

When I’m on vacation, I’m not fond of rigid schedules or set seating for meals. On the boat breakfast is 7-9:30; dinner at precisely 7 PM. Tours start at 8:30 or 9 AM, and you’re back on the boat around noon, in time for lunch, which ends at 2 PM. Then you have about four hours of “free” time – with absolutely nothing to do, no place to go, and no on-board diversions, until the bar opens.

What about the tours? Didn’t we get to tour amazing places?

We did, but not the way I hoped. It was more like elementary school field trips.  Only you didn’t need a permission slip from your parents or a PBJ wrapped in wax paper and an apple for lunch.  Other than that, it brought back memories of chaperones keeping everyone in line.       

Let me start by saying I’m not a paddle-following kind of guy. Especially now that I’m an adult.  I’m more a get me to the city, give me a map with what I should see, tell me when I have to be back, and let me wander around on my own kind of guy.  I’m all grown up. 

But all the guided tours on Viking had you follow a guide who held a paddle aloft to keep everyone in the group together, like ducklings.  

Plus, everyone had to wear a “quiet box” with an ear plug to hear what the guide was saying.

Which in Belgium is how much they hate the French, and also stupid and lazy French-speaking Belgians who refuse to learn Flemish, and the Spanish, and, being a proudly Catholic nation, how awful and disruptive the Protestant Reformation was. 

Which in Amsterdam is how rich it became because educated and wealthy Jews relocated there when the Catholics and their Inquisition chased them out of other parts of Europe, and how so many Jews were later saved from the Nazis by the brave locals. (Cue Anne Frank story.) 

Which in Brussels is how proud they are to have the EU headquartered there, the great work the EU is doing passing numerous wonderful laws and regulations about everything, and how the Brits are misguided idiots for voting to leave the EU.

And which in Germany is how most of the buildings including cathedrals had to be wholly or partially rebuilt following the devastating bombings by the Allies in WWII, so most of what you see is a recreation. (I couldn’t help thinking: well, if you hadn’t started the war in the first place the Allies wouldn’t have bombed you. Just saying …)

Oh, and almost all the “medieval” castles you see on the Rhine are actually restorations from the 1800s during the “romantic” movement.

Okay. We did see a lot of cathedrals. We did see some interesting cities. And as I said before, the Viking boat, staff, and food were all excellent.

Except for the next-to-last night on the boat. 

Before we could go to dinner, the hotel manager and program director for this boat assembled all the guests to pitch us on leaving additional gratuities for themselves and the rest of the staff.  They paraded members of the restaurant staff, including the dishwashers, the wait staff, the bar staff, and told us not to forget the housekeepers as well. 

The only thing missing was pictures of their kids with outstretched hands. 

We were advised there would be envelopes in our rooms for the program director, and we could get additional envelopes at the reception desk for others. 

It was truly awkward.  And in extremely poor taste.  Especially since I’m certain almost everyone on board had already been handing out tips to the service staff all along, or planned to do it anyway, and some people had bought their trip packages with built-in gratuities. 

River cruises are not inexpensive.

But Viking’s beg-a-thon near the end unnecessarily cheapened the experience.    

Overall, a European river cruise is a great adventure. For the right personality type, I’m sure it’s a wonderful experience. For me it was a once-in-a-lifetime event. 

Literally.  

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